Are Kalani & Asuelu Still Together From 90 Day: The Last Resort? Her ‘Pain’

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Warning: Spoilers ahead for 90 Day: The Last Resort season 1 and if Kalani and Asuelu are still together. You’ve watched them get married as strangers, now they’re putting their relationships to the ultimate test: couple’s therapy. And if you’re wondering if Kalani and Asuelu are still together from 90 Day Fiancé: The Last Resort, buckle up because things are about to get messy.

There’s a lot of content to consume in the 90 Day Fiancé universe. The original show follows couples who have received a K-1 visa, which is uniquely available to betrothed partners of US citizens. The Other Way is exactly what it sounds like—American couples who move to their partner’s home country. “It’s about love,” 90 Day Fiancé executive producer, Matt Sharp, told Gold Derby in May 2022 when asked what makes the TLC reality TV series so popular.

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He continued: “Love is primal, but I think we tapped into a couple of things. One is that this show is incredibly authentic. I’m a huge lover of The Bachelor and that franchise, however, we were one of the first shows to actually tell real stories about ordinary Americans and their love journeys. Also, this show is about this journey with other cultures. When we launched this show in 2014, we were on the ‘love frontier’ of this whole new era of finding people all over the world.”

He continued: “This is the most diverse show on television,” Sharp asserted. “You can challenge me on it. We featured people from 51 countries at this point. We have subtitles. We have people that don’t speak the same language and have completely different cultures. We’re trying to tell unique stories every time and when we’re in the casting process we’re evaluating people based on their personalities, backgrounds and their stories, but also we just want to tell unique, fresh, interesting stories.” So are Kalani and Asuelu still together? Read on and beware, spoilers ahead.

Are Kalani and Asuelu still together from 90 Day: The Last Resort?

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Status: Split.

Are Kalani and Asuelu still together from 90 Day: The Last Resort? No, they finalized their split on the penultimate episode of the season. In the season finale, which aired on October 30, 2023, they did commit to a co-parenting relationship.

“I commit to being a better friend to you, and to building a good friendship. I want to learn how to communicate gently and be more peaceful and patient with you,” Kalani told Asuelu. “I want to be there for you, and for you to do the same with me. And I want to co-parent the best I can with you so we can still have a very good, strong family. I just want to make sure that we always put our kids first and just help each other out.”

Asuelu was emotional. “I just want to commit that I want to have a nice co-parent with you, and I wanna appreciate everything that you do and done for me,” he said. “I just wanna apologize for everything that I treat you and done bad to you and hurt your feelings. I just hope that you forgive what I did and all the past that we have, I want you to let it go and just make a new friendship. I just want us to love and respect to each other and trust to each other from here to the future.”

On July 13, 2023, The Sun reported that Kalani had moved on from Asuelu with a man by the name of Dallas Nuez—the “tattooed man” and “hall pass” she teased on an episode that aired on August 21, 2023.

Let’s get their background straight. Asuelu wanted to save his marriage after his infidelity, so he gave Kalani a “hall pass” so that she could go and kiss anyone she wanted to. “But he only told me that because he thought I wouldn’t do anything,” Kalani said, but she did.

Then, on the episode of 90 Day that aired on August 21, Kalani and Asuelu had a massive argument about said “hall pass” when she confessed she had feelings for him. “I took Asuelu up on the hall pass when he cheated because sexually, I’ve only been with Asuelu and I just wanted to see what it was like,” she said in a confessional interview. “But once I got to know this other person better, I ended up liking the other man. So I don’t know.”

Asuelu told her he was “really mad and upset” because it was “painful” to learn that Kalani had fallen for another man. Later, she explained, “I only slept with you before him. You realize, right? So yes, it’s a big deal for me to sleep with somebody else who’s not my husband, so I had to keep a connection with him.”

90 Day Fiance: The Last Resort
90 Day Fiance: The Last ResortCourtesy of TLC

Aseulu said later: “I know I screwed up. I cheated on her and I [made] a really bad idea to give her a [hall] pass,” he acknowledged in an interview. “But Kalani still texting to the other guy. And I want her to, like, stop doing that, and let’s just start fresh.”

We were first introduced to Kalani and Asuelu in Season 6 of 90 Day Fiance, while Kalani was on vacation in Asuelu’s native country of Samoa. They quickly got pregnant and welcomed their first child, son Oliver, in January 2018. Now, the couple is entering the resort in a state of relationship crisis. As they navigated their trust issues, huge revelations came to light.

In a preview clip for season 1 of 90 Day: The Last Resort, Kalani said cheating was one of the reasons their relationship is on the rocks. “We’re here because we’ve had a lot of issues with infidelity. We are trying to figure that out and I think the biggest thing for us is that we are trying to figure it out for our kids,” Kalani said before Asuelu added, “I feel like the reason why we’re here is because of me.” He added, through tears: “I have a lot of things that I need to work on myself. I know what I did is really bad. I just need to get the answer of my own problems that I have.”

On Instagram in late August 2023, one of Kalani’s followers asked if she would ever expose the woman Asuelu cheated with, but Kalani rejected the idea. She said, “No, I would never expose that person. If they choose to do that, that is their business.” The 90 Day Fiancé star added that Asuelu lied about being single, so it wasn’t the woman’s fault. Kalani concluded her message by warning the woman. She added, Babe, please take that sh—t to the f—king grave. Don’t ever expose yourself. Don’t tell anyone it was you. The internet is a very mean place.”

Based on their respective social media activities, it seems they’re not still together, as Asuelu seems to be enjoying solo travel and was even spotted getting cuddly with fellow co-star Winter Everett. Meanwhile, Kalani has been enjoying life in Orange County. But the question of whether Kalani and Asuelu are still together continues to unveil drama as the show progresses.

During an episode that aired on October 9, 2023, Kalani made some shocking allegations against Asuelu, that he had sexually abused her during their marriage. In a since-expired Instagram post to stories, she said that she wanted to “clear some things up” about her relationship. “I did not have a one-night stand with Asuelu, we didn’t even kiss until two weeks after knowing each other,” she wrote. “I met him in July 2016, and we intentionally got pregnant in May 2017.”

She continued: “I had a second baby because I was held down. He apologized for that and the other times I was SA [sexual assault], it’s recorded. You can imagine how it feels to get messages about “taking responsibility” and learning to keep my legs shut when they were forced open. None of you know ANYONE you watch. You know a version of people and you crucify them over things out of their control, and for what? May all of that energy be returned to you and yours.” Asuelu has not responded to these claims.

If you or anyone you know has been sexually abused, call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673). 

Who’s in 90 Day: The Last Resort cast?

Here are the couples for 90 Day: The Last Resort:

Ed & Liz
Jovi & Yara
Angela & Michael
Kalani & Asuelu
Molly & Kelly

90 Day Fiance: The Last Resort airs at 9 pm Mondays ET on TLC.

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