Pregnant Mom Defends Search for Baby's Name in Cemetery After Video Goes Viral: Not a 'Place of Evil' (Exclusive)
Many displeased TikTok viewers referenced cultural superstitions that warn against pregnant women visiting cemeteries
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Haley Hodge looking for names in a cemetery in North CarolinaExpecting mom Haley Hodge caught viral attention when she shared footage from her unlikely search for a baby name in a cemetery
The TikTok video's 2.5 million views were dually spooked and inspired by the idea, but Hodge tells PEOPLE she's never felt uncomfortable visiting graveyards
The TikToker says she found her first three kids' monikers through more traditional means, and she wanted to give her future daughter's name a more unique origin
Good things are often found in the last place you’d think to look.
As her due date nears, Haley Hodge has expanded her search for baby names beyond books and websites. Instead, the mom of three — and soon-to-be four — is checking out headstones at local cemeteries for inspiration from late lives and bygone eras.
Hodge documented her unlikely quest for her daughter’s name in a now-viral TikTok video that sparked split opinions amongst its 2.5 million viewers. In the clip, the expecting mom can be seen stepping around graves at the Old Smithville Burying Ground in Southport, North Carolina.
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As she explored the cemetery, Hodge discussed the names of those buried beneath with her husband, Rivers, and their kids who came along.
“When cemeteries hold the prettiest baby names, so you take the family to look for baby girl’s name,” the content creator wrote alongside her video.
Many people appreciated Hodge’s creativity and shared their appreciation for names that celebrate late lives.
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"This is the first ever video I’ve seen like this, never would have thought about it,” one person commented. “But I absolutely love this idea!!! Especially if you research the person.”
“This is honestly beautiful. What a way to honor those that have passed,” another TikTok user said.
Others were unnerved by the spooky sentiment, and several comments referenced superstitions warning against pregnant women visiting cemeteries. Hodge tells PEOPLE she expected some backlash based on differing cultural regards for death, but she has never felt uncomfortable at burial sites.
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Haley Hodge looks for baby names in a North Carolina cemetery with her family“I just saw it as I'm going to the place where people's grandparents are, their best friends, loved ones. I don't see it as a place of evil,” Hodge says. “These are people who lived lives and hopefully good lives and were good people.”
Plus, she’s not particularly haunted by the idea of spending time near the deceased.
“If there was something like souls out there, I don't think they are confined just to a cemetery,” she says, adding, “We have babies above a morgue at a hospital, if you deliver at a hospital, so we're kind of surrounded by it.”
Growing up, Hodge recalls that her own mom liked to stop at cemeteries while on vacation to teach her family about new areas from a historic point of view.
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Haley Hodge looks for baby names in a North Carolina cemetery with her family“She just realized we'd be more into it if it was a spooky story versus just a regular historic story as kids,” Hodge explains of her mother’s tradition. “It's kind of like kids telling scary stories at a bonfire. You're just more interested in it.”
With her first three kids — 10-year-old daughter Finley and sons Banks, 1, and Crew, 3 — Hodge says she looked for names in more traditional places, often writing down monikers she heard mentioned on television. This time around, she hoped to give her daughter an interesting story to share when asked about her origins.
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Haley Hodge posing with her baby bumpSimilarly, Hodge decided to record the family’s cemetery adventure so she could share it with her future kid one day.
“I wasn't even going to post [the videos],” she explains, though the pregnant mom eventually decided to upload her naming process for the world to appreciate. “I was like, "You know what? This is kind of cool to share’ … I knew it was going to spark some attention, being different.”
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